Last Kiss from Neptune: Mythology of Rape, physically, Ideologically and Geographically by Graham Shona

Author:Graham, Shona [Graham, Shona]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Unknown
Published: 2015-04-11T16:00:00+00:00

Neptune in aspect to Saturn

Saturn is the babysitter of our inner child, the one that says no you can't have ice cream for breakfast, actually you do need to go to bed and sleep, if you want it get a job and earn it yourself. Saturn does not give us what we want but rather what we need, thus like all children we both hate Saturn and need him. Neptune on the other hand is all about getting what we want usually in the way of fantasy. With Saturn we are dealing with the illusion and disillusion around parents, structures, boundaries and enforcement.

Saturn sets us boundaries like all good parents should, it sets up structure in our life so we can predict what will happen next most of the time this too is what all good parents should do, it has set consequences so we can understand that all our decisions have consequences either positive or negative yet again all good parents should do this. Saturn tells us that we cannot jump off cliffs without getting hurt, sets meal times and bed times so we can predict our day and it tells us if we break it we have to pay.

This is good for us however when times are set so rigidly, that we cannot adapt bedtime or dinner time for special circumstances and occasions, instead setting structure, consequences and boundaries it becomes authoritarian which is when we are actually lacking in control as much as if we have set no boundaries, structure and consequence. Thus we have in Saturn the three major types of parenting permissive where nothing is set and we have no consequences to our actions - however in reality permissive parenting swings between this and authoritarian parenting where through lack of control everything is attempted to be controlled, authoritarian where there is set rules and boundaries but freedom within them and authoritarian where everything is controlled and there is no room for manoeuvre.

Saturn tends to swing between all three at different times. Thus in aspect to Neptune we face the illusions and disillusionment of swinging between permissiveness and authoritarianism. Of not facing the consequences and disproportionate consequences, of having no boundaries and having to many boundaries, of having no structure and of having too much structure. Not facing the consequences of our actions means that we do not understand the importance of the choices and decisions we make. Disproportionate consequences means we are unduly punished for our mistakes and less likely to attempt things or speak out for fear of reprisal.

Disproportionate consequences rob us of our ability to work out risks, we all take risks every time we cross a road. Every time we cross we work out the risk of being hit by a vehicle based on its distance and speed, then we decide how high the risk is and either stay or cross. When the consequences are disproportional we over estimate risks and this leads us to metaphorically only crossing roads when there are

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